One if the best things in life is getting to see the one you love, completely and totally functioning in the middle of God’s plan.
It is magical.
It makes you want to be used by God at a much higher level.
See I’m the one on stage.
I sing the songs.
I counsel the couples.
I speak at the conferences.
Heather has always been my biggest supporter.
Actually, tonight, while I was sitting on the sofa downstairs trying to fix my blog, she was upstairs being completely ignored by yours truly. Then I got this email…

“I know I don’t tell you enough… I love you. I am so proud to be married to you. You have such an amazing talent. God has poured his blessings on you. People try their whole lives to try to say just the right thing, or lead worship as effortlessly as you, people long to be a people person, people try to have others follow. You just have it. I am so excited to see how God is gonna use what he gave you. I am so excited to watch God rattle you a little to only use you more. I love you. I am honored to be your lady. I want to make you happy. I want to make you proud. I want to follow you. I want you. GO Bring Revival To Buckhead!!! Balls out! I love you baby. h’

She emailed me that from 15 feet away. I stopped what I was doing, cried, thanked God for Heather, then walked upstairs to tell her that I don’t deserve her. She was sleeping. So I laid down beside her and held her. Then I stuck my ice cold feet between her thighs and laughed as she punched me in the chest.

I am the luckiest man in the world.
And I realized something.
Not only did Heather leave her family, friends, and church to follow God out here, she left her ministry.
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Her personal ministry.

See Heather was always trying to find her niche in church.
She never felt like she was in the perfect place in ministry.
Then came JC’s Girls.
How in the world could my wife relate to women who have sex on camera for a living?
Because she saw them as no farther away from Christ as she was on her best day.
The only difference is that she had made the decision to give her life away to God Almighty.
And she thrived.
Everytime she would get to go to another Adult Expo I would see her eyes light up for 2 weeks before the event.
Where she was able to tell girls that when the time came, they had a place and an ear to go to.
Heather was in her zone.
And she gave that up for me. For Buckhead Church. For God’s perfect plan.
She is the most encouraging woman on the planet and I can’t wait until God opens another door to allow her to get back into her spot.
Loving the unlovable and making them believe that there is something more.

All while looking at porn…
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