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The discussion is touchy.
It is not politically correct.
It makes people get all fired up.
I don’t know the answer.
A few weeks ago a good friend of mine sat over coffee for a few hours and the topic of the “hot assistant” came up.
The question arose because a prominent pastor in our circle fell to sexual immorality.
His assistant would be classified in most male circles as “hot”.
Before you start screaming SEXIST! Or BIGOT! Or Matador!!!
OK. You can call me the last one.
I KNOW that a dude can fall for a looker or a not so looker.
And a chica can fall for some ugly dude.
Emotional affairs happen all the time.
But let’s be completely honest.
If I was to interview 2 assistants with the exact same skill set who would be spending massive amounts of time with me…
One looked like this and one looked like this
I’m pretty sure @whittakerwoman would recommend numero dos.
Why?
Because I’m a male who thinks females are fine and would rather not even take that chance.
BUT LOS!!! YOU ARE SUPPOSED TO BE A GODLY MAN WHO ONLY HAS EYES FOR HIS WIFE!!!
I know.  And I am a broken mess of a man.
If you are a pastor, and you have a hot assistant, I’m not saying your wrong.
This would mean that if you are beautiful, and have a skill set in administration, you are screwed.
I’m just opening the conversation.
And yes @katiepeters, this would mean I broke my own rule.
I mean you can’t help it if you work it out AND keep my schedule.

Is this the easy way out?
Or is this the smart way out?
Chat.
Los